I'm wondering what good it will do to throw my thoughts out into the ether... It seems that VW has an "internet-reputation" even from folks that have never owned one. But I admit that some of that reputation is deserved.
The driving experience is real. I recently turned down the opportunity to buy a convertible Mustang... because I couldn't bring myself to accept the fact that I'd have to give up driving the MORE FUN to drive Volkswagen. I realize that that is a subjective opinion. If you prefer the appliance, that's the better choice for you.
I'm always reminded about the non-politically-correct joke about the ugly girl and the fat girl. You can, after all, repair the VW, and the appliance will always be an appliance.
Just a few points:
Replacing parts on a VW is a breeze. Because, they fit.
The parts are not more expensive, at least what I've noticed.
VW dealers are indeed jerks. Wow, I could write 20 pages on this...
If you cannot or will not dig in and understand what might be happening in your car, you shouldn't get a VW. For example, can you replace a thermostat or a MAF sensor? If you can, OK. If not, the dealer will charge you big-time for these items.
VW has the highest resale value in the industry. That's a fact.
When I look over cars that I see on the road that are 20-years old or more, I see a disproportionate number of VWs. That is, in my admittedly non-scientific observation, they last longer. Maybe that's because people care about them more?
Your mileage may vary. With my 1.8T (turbo), I'm getting 27 in mixed driving. That's screaming performance, racing and beating people up the freeway on-ramps, performance. Here at high altitude, a turbo's advantage is multiplied.