Mobil1 0w40 and Syntec 0w30 are excellent choices for spring to fall towing. You can go back to the thinner oil in the winter.
If they still use the ph3614 sized filter, to increase oil capacity, you can usually fit the ph3600 or ph8a filter. This helps with temperature, which in turn helps PSI... and if there is more wear, you have more media.
For the transmission, consider an ATF filter, like the Magnefine.
Towing 4500lbs, along with passengers/luggage, just about doubles the strain on the drive train. It'll double the amount of fuel you use, doubles the amount of heat buildup in engine & transmission.... It puts you automatically in severe service maintenance, along with additional common sense maintenance intervals often forgotten by the automaker.
If they still use the ph3614 sized filter, to increase oil capacity, you can usually fit the ph3600 or ph8a filter. This helps with temperature, which in turn helps PSI... and if there is more wear, you have more media.
For the transmission, consider an ATF filter, like the Magnefine.
Towing 4500lbs, along with passengers/luggage, just about doubles the strain on the drive train. It'll double the amount of fuel you use, doubles the amount of heat buildup in engine & transmission.... It puts you automatically in severe service maintenance, along with additional common sense maintenance intervals often forgotten by the automaker.