I don't think there is a point where a solid is not considered a solid until you reach the individual atom/molecule. If a solid substance is not soluble in the solvent, it remains a solid regardless of it's size. Once the size is small enough, Brownian motion will keep the solid suspended and evenly mixed. This is called a suspension. A soluble compound dissociates completely to the individual molecule forming a true mixture.
The soluble Zn and Mo additives used in motor oil are just that, soluble. They are organic molecules that contain the metallic element, usually a single atom. ZDDP and molybdenum dithiocarbamate are examples.
Structure of ZZDP:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Zinc_dithiophosphate
These exist in the motor oil as individual molecules. They dissolve in the base oil just as a spoonful of sugar dissolves in a cup of coffee. The spoonful of solid sucrose you stirred in ends up as individual molecules of sucrose mixed throughout your coffee.
The reactions of these oil additives with the wear surface take place at the atomic level. Heat an pressure cause he ZDDP to break apart into various P containing molecules which then react at the wear surface to form hard Phosphate containing glass-like layers containing various amounts of Zn, S, and Fe from the initial wear. These coatings are very hard and wear resistant.
MoTDC does react at the wear surface to form MoS2. The difference here is that The MoTDC works in concert with ZDDP as the anti-wear layer formation is taking place at the atomic level. As I said, in my previous post, the chemistry matters. The reactions are very specific, and just throwing something that contains the same elements or the desirable end products into the mix are unlikely to give you the desired results. A tablespoon of TSP and squirt of Zinc Oxide sun block aren't an effective way of raising the Zn and P wear protection of your oil.
Do the lubricating properties of the MoS2 prevent the heat needed for the native oil additives to work? Does it muck up the intended reactions? I don't know, and I haven't been able to find any publications on the subject. I choose to error on the side of caution.
Ed