Unhappy Neighbors...

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Thought some of you might get a kick out of this. We own/control around 300 acres of hay field and pasture ground and always have a slew of locals asking to fish the ponds or river, wanting to hunt this or that, look for mushrooms, etc. The answer is and has always been no. Today I had a neighbor kid that we already denied hunting access to want to go in on us and look for antler sheds. Again the answer was no. Now they are telling us about how "it's a shame to own that much land and not let anyone use it." We hunt, fish and farm it ourselves. I'm trying not to go scorched earth on them but they may still get it before the night is over.

I am the 5th generation on this same land. Over the years, my grandmother's side lost thousands of acres through eminent domain that was flooded to build a local lake and then within the last 50 years over 200 more acres was taken from my grandparents for "floodplain" for the same lake. Both times they were paid pennies on the dollar. They fought through the court systems to to save the land and then for actual fair compensation and lost. Long story short, we are surrounded by hundreds of acres of public use ground and within minutes of the 25,000 acre lake but people still harass and trespass on our well marked private property. People frustrate me.
 
Well, some people . . . .
I live near some properties that are quite large and privately owned. Fortunately I work for one of the property owners and am given total access to forage for mushrooms and to cut firewood. I can sort of understand where a person would get upset about being denied access, but I also can't understand how anyone would feel they were entitled to use someone else's land for their own purposes. It probably sucks to have to be the "bad guy" but those people wanting to use your land have a very unrealistic attitude, especially since you say there are public use lands in the general area. Plus, I wholeheartedly embrace the notion that if you want something to stay nice then keep the public out!! There is a gorgeous 140 acre parcel nearby that I used to have access to before it changed hands, but at least the general public can't get in and spoil it.
 
Thought some of you might get a kick out of this. We own/control around 300 acres of hay field and pasture ground and always have a slew of locals asking to fish the ponds or river, wanting to hunt this or that, look for mushrooms, etc. The answer is and has always been no. Today I had a neighbor kid that we already denied hunting access to want to go in on us and look for antler sheds. Again the answer was no. Now they are telling us about how "it's a shame to own that much land and not let anyone use it." We hunt, fish and farm it ourselves. I'm trying not to go scorched earth on them but they may still get it before the night is over.

I am the 5th generation on this same land. Over the years, my grandmother's side lost thousands of acres through eminent domain that was flooded to build a local lake and then within the last 50 years over 200 more acres was taken from my grandparents for "floodplain" for the same lake. Both times they were paid pennies on the dollar. They fought through the court systems to to save the land and then for actual fair compensation and lost. Long story short, we are surrounded by hundreds of acres of public use ground and within minutes of the 25,000 acre lake but people still harass and trespass on our well marked private property. People frustrate me.
Now if I drive the 1600 miles or so to SW Missouri, can I fish your pond? C'mon man!
 
Thought some of you might get a kick out of this. We own/control around 300 acres of hay field and pasture ground and always have a slew of locals asking to fish the ponds or river, wanting to hunt this or that, look for mushrooms, etc. The answer is and has always been no. Today I had a neighbor kid that we already denied hunting access to want to go in on us and look for antler sheds. Again the answer was no. Now they are telling us about how "it's a shame to own that much land and not let anyone use it." We hunt, fish and farm it ourselves. I'm trying not to go scorched earth on them but they may still get it before the night is over.

I am the 5th generation on this same land. Over the years, my grandmother's side lost thousands of acres through eminent domain that was flooded to build a local lake and then within the last 50 years over 200 more acres was taken from my grandparents for "floodplain" for the same lake. Both times they were paid pennies on the dollar. They fought through the court systems to to save the land and then for actual fair compensation and lost. Long story short, we are surrounded by hundreds of acres of public use ground and within minutes of the 25,000 acre lake but people still harass and trespass on our well marked private property. People frustrate me.

Give them an inch, and they'll take a mile.

Stand your ground.
 
This article articulates what may happen to private land owners when non authorized people use private land for recreational purposes:

Colorado woman says she was bullied by community who wanted to take her property, this is how she fought back​

Ostracized by her community, a homeowner fought for her property rights through a viral online alter ego: The 'Wicked Witch of the West'​


https://www.foxnews.com/media/colorado-woman-says-bullied-community-wanted-take-property-fought-back
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People have been trained to be self-pitying garbage.

CASE IN POINT:
In my youth, the blood flow of my "one horse town" was a stinking paper mill.
You went to school, learned something and left. If you worked in the mill, you were the bottom rung of the social ladder.
You also had the option of being called a loser.

In today's world -remember, the small farms are gone and pleasure craft, with their seasonal maintenance jobs, are not as popular, etc.-, the workers in the same mill are the "haves". The leftover people, who are frequently fat, TV watching slobs, all claim to have been ripped off by the system.
They're not just "have nots", they've been victimized in their malnourished minds.

I employ the use of the word 'system' to avoid making a political comment.

While some people would always jack deer or trespass as described above, there's a misguided (malguided) militance and fury to their sad existence.

My friends sold half a beautiful peninsula to their town for a park. They retained the other half.
Kids with quad-cycles pushed their fence posts down to ride on their land.

A percentage of people have always been garbage. You all know it's worse today.
Fill in the missing pieces and define the different players for yourself because I don't want this post to modded.
 
Just tell them your attorney told you not to let people use your property for hunting, fishing, hiking or whatever because you could get sued. People generally understand that concept and it doesn’t make you seem like the bad guy.
 
There is an old logging road through my property, that is now just a trail, and it goes to a more major trail. This fall a girl out riding her horse was exploring and then ended up in my backyard. She seemed very startled and panicked when she saw me. I wasn't mad at all, I asked her to come over to me. She slowly rode up. I gave her a bottle of water and talked to her about some good riding trails, and told her that she was welcome to either go back the way she came in, or ride up past the house and out to the road. She thanked me, and went out to the road.
I recognized that same girl about a month later walking down the road with her dog, and yelled Hello. She walked up the driveway and we chatted.
Found out she lives about 6 houses down the road, but here 6 houses is a good long walk. I thought it was nice to meet a neighbor kid.
Since the trail in my backyard joins up to a large trail system, I told her that anytime she wanted to cut through my yard to the trails on her horse, she was welcome to do so.
Along came Halloween, and a quad pulls into the yard, a young girl hops off the back, and comes to the door trick or treating. Her dad also walked up and introduced himself, and thanked me for being so nice to his daughter.
Christmas eve day she walked down, and brought us an entire container of homemade cookies she and her mom baked, and her mom sent her to deliver.
We only moved here this past summer, but I love getting to know my neighbors.
 
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