Finally, some good news in our saga...
Mechanic called and said... "good news - the cleaning worked". He also said he'd get rid of the vehicle asap, but I think that was a general commment and not anything specific, w/ regard to bearing wear, etc. He didn't pull the valve cover, and when I asked about a pressure test, he said dismissively, IMO, "it doesn't need one - it's got great pressure". Of course, I'd like to qualify what 'great' means, so I'll probably go buy a pressure gauge and test myself.
Went to the parking lot, started it up, and...all seemed well. I drove it the short distance to her apt, and it seemed to have adequate power, quiet, etc. Popped the hood again, listened to the engine, took it up to 2000, 2500 rpm... told the GF to buy lottery tickets.
There's new oil and a new filter in it, so we're ready to start the ARX cycle - of course, now, after her nephew scared her off of it, she's not sure if she wants to add or not. It came in yesterday, BTW. Since he does mufflers & brakes, and I just saved her at least $5000 , I'm thinking she'll go with my advice, once I tell her what to do. She did ask me what I'd do if it were my car - my car being the Honda which I meticulously maintain, IMHO. Given that, I couldn't envision the scenario in which this would happen to me, and I told her so.
Q for Frank, if he sees this - all directions I've seen say 2oz per qt; I had calculated 8oz for our application . However, there was an insert in the printed materials that came with the box that said 'IMPORTANT', followed by directions to add an *extra* 2oz if new filter was involved, and giving an example of 12oz of ARX, instead of 10, for a 5qt sump. Since the application instructions *always* call for a new filter, even if you use existing oil, then by this sheet, you would always use Can you advise which is correct ? Since the mechanic added new oil, it's at the full mark, and I don't intend to drain 8oz out of the sump - I just want to pour in the ARX and go, per directions. I know 'overfilling' by up to 10oz isn't going to cause an issue; I just want to have the ratio correct, going in . Thanks.
For the others who still care to comment - I'm thinking about going with Rotella 5W-40 after the ARX cycle/cycles are complete. My other choice, if I stayed in mfg spec'd range, would be GTX 5W-30, since it has the "anti-sludge formula" tag on the bottle. Thoughts ? I *will* be doing the oil changes from this point out. And I will pull the valve cover at some point and perhaps the oil pan, since I got the Haynes manual for the car, and it looks like I can do both fairly easily. Thanks.