You might like the Toyo Celsius Sport and the Vredestein Quatrac Pro, if they are available in the size you need. These are billed as high performance all weather tires
The old CrossClimate seems like something you would've liked, but the new CC2 isn't like that anymore. The old CC1 was described as "a summer tire homologated for winter use" but the CC2 strayed from that formula. Conversely, Nokian's all-weather tires are closer to being winter tires that can be used year-round.
Basically all OE tires suck because they're primarily designed to be cheap and lift up CAFE numbers
And remember, all tires are a compromise somewhere!
Can you downsize wheels? Smaller wheels and more sidewall will give you a better ride and better performance in bad weather.
Get some grand touring summer tires for the summer time (ContiPremiumContact, Michelin Primacy 4, Bridgestone Turanza 6, Goodyear EfficientGrip, etc), and performance winter tires for the winter (Michelin's Pilot Alpin series, Conti's TS-series, Pirelli Sottozero, etc).