Originally Posted By: djb
Not seeing the seller at (outside) their home could be a warning sign. The buyer will see the address on title on other documents, so the only reason to insist on meeting elsewhere is if the seller isn't the actual owner, or they are trying to hide a defect.
You're right, it goes both ways. The buyer might want to match your home address with your license, registration, and title. Might want to make sure you are who you say you are and not a 3rd party "flipping" the car. Buyer might want to check you out, make sure you keep the lawn tidy, live in the nice part of town, look like you'd take care of the car.
I would just photocopy your money (so you get the serial numbers- stack them 1/2 on top of each other) before you deposit it, if you get called on a counterfeit you can take it to the cops. Naturally you'll have a copy of the bill of sale and you'll have the buyer's drivers license info. Because, after all, you're paranoid.
The odds of a counterfeiting are way out there. The buyer is probably nervous about carrying all that cash and might be carrying heat or afraid you are. There are many other ways a deal could go wrong, but 99% of the time it'll go right. If you go through a dealer he'll take a pretty big cut for security and the dealer could still screw you over quasi-legally.