About once month to every 6-8 weeks I drive to the cemetery where my parents are, and then visit our niece and/or do some shopping. That trip is about 225 miles in total, and sometimes with a lot of traffic. Why would I want to run up her electric bill charging my car? I don't need to catch up on text messages, emails, or calls, while I wait charging the car on the road. That can be accomplished at home or hands free. Another thing is I don't like any of the Tesla offerings, or the price tag that goes along with them. Can I afford one? Sure, but there are a lot of other vehicles I actually like and would rather spend my money on. They burn gas.Question for you: How often do you drive over 200 miles, each way, in a day?
Let's say you have a 200 mile trip to make. Start with a full tank (easy if you can charge at home).
Drive to you destination. If you are going to a friend/family, you could possibly charge at their house. Or fill up at a Supercharger. If so, catch up on email, texts, phone calls, whatever.
Drive home and plug in. Easy peasy.
Now, if you drive under 100 miles per day, assuming you can charge at home @240V, you have no need to go to a Supercharger. The amount of time saved is 100%. Plus, you save the fuel and time spent going to the gas station. I just drove 27 miles round trip to Costco to get $5 per gallon gas. Left the house at 7:30 AM on a Sunday. Our Model 3 is full just sitting the garage.
Add in other possibilities some have like charging at work, the library, Wall World, hospitals, downtown, and much more.
There is no doubt long trips do not favor Teslas. But that's only part of the story.
I now officially have family in Florida and might be moving there myself. In the meantime that will mean a few road trips for us each year to Florida. Last trip I made with my brother we drove straight through, our longest stop was 30 minutes. Others averaged under 10 minutes. I'm not going to make that drive any longer than I have to stopping to charge a car when gas is still available to me.
Lets not forget I live on L.I. which for the most part has a different mind set than CA I think when it comes to the EV. At least the people I associate with. I haven't seen a charging station at any of the places you mentioned near me. On the plus side, there's a good chance I won't be driving when the EV's are totally forced upon me. I'll be sticking to gas as long as I can.
My final thoughts are: you are clearly an EV fan, I'm not and I don't see myself being one any time soon. Too much of a hassle for me, the tech still has a long way to go and I'm not going to participate in testing it out. Bottom line is our opinions are going to differ, which I don't see as a problem. This rant was in answer to your question, and these threads interest me a little.