With the European car makers recommending thicker oil, it's partly because of their culture and partly because of possible extreme-load autobahn use (driving at near full engine loads).
With the heavy-duty diesel engines, soot particles are abrasive and need a thicker oil film so that they are smaller than the thickness of the oil film -- otherwise, they would rub into sliding metal parts and wear them out quickly. Gasoline engines don't have this problem, as the insoluble particles in the oil are less harmful.
Thin vs. thick oil is certainly a compromise and not black-and-white. I think the rule of thumb is to use the thinnest oil that doesn't increase the wear significantly. As long as the wear is OK, you will benefit from the better flow, cooler oil temperature, smaller oil pressure, better fuel economy, better cold-engine performance, etc. of thinner oil. At certain thinness, the wear will start to increase and that thinness point will depend on the engine type, engine construction, and even the oil type, as well as the driving conditions.
With the heavy-duty diesel engines, soot particles are abrasive and need a thicker oil film so that they are smaller than the thickness of the oil film -- otherwise, they would rub into sliding metal parts and wear them out quickly. Gasoline engines don't have this problem, as the insoluble particles in the oil are less harmful.
Thin vs. thick oil is certainly a compromise and not black-and-white. I think the rule of thumb is to use the thinnest oil that doesn't increase the wear significantly. As long as the wear is OK, you will benefit from the better flow, cooler oil temperature, smaller oil pressure, better fuel economy, better cold-engine performance, etc. of thinner oil. At certain thinness, the wear will start to increase and that thinness point will depend on the engine type, engine construction, and even the oil type, as well as the driving conditions.