Not sure about when to change in the Aerostar, it is the same Vulcan engine but mine (01 Taurus) has a waste spark system, so the plug life may be shorter.
All 6 of the plugs wear about the same (platinum disc/tip completely gone), and if you have access to at least 3 of them, use that as a reference to see if the other 3 should be changed.
Maybe the aftermarket double platinum will be better, mine was single platinum center and platinum ground, but if only one side is wearing, it really doesn't matter. You can probably use single platinum on one side and double platinum on the other.