The girl in your college class

[97tbird]

Go for a town-wide GC hunt. It can be romantic

Does she like to read? Go to a used book-store.
Meet for a drink and a walk as already suggested sounds good, too.

 

[javacontour]

Just show an interest in her, if you find her interesting. If not, don't try to force something that isn't there.

If she's not interesting now, why devote time trying to force something that isn't there?

If you are looking for a fun date, then dates where you do something together are the best. Going to a movie is passive. You really don't interact with your date. Go skiing or snowboarding, hiking, biking, or just window shopping.

Now making your own movie....(Not that kind of movie you bunch of leg humpers!)

If money is tight, or you just want to see how clever each other is, give each of you $5-10 (you give her the $$$) and go to a dollar store or similar and you each buy something for the other and exchange gifts.

Share your experiences over an ice cream (unless she really loves coffee and wants to date in a place similar to where she works.)

Just some ideas.

 

[morepwr]

Don't let the opportunity pass! As others have said, be yourself and go for it!

 

[surfstar]

Don't do something potentially awkward - ie DINNER! Run out of conversation and its dead before you get a chance. Movie? NO! Opposite with no conversation or interaction. Both are never a good first date.

If she likes a good beer (who in college doesn't?) - look for a brewery for a tasting? Or simply happy hour and apps and go from there. A second date can be longer and more active - hiking etc. First date shouldn't be so involved/long.

 

[strat81]

Take her shooting. Indoor range if it's too cold.

This is a good way for you to gauge her politics, tolerance for loud noise, and willingness to try something new, all of which are important in a serious relationship.

 

[bustednutz]

Every man my age (42) that I know has a regret or two in their lives. Women seem to top the list. I dated a lot in college and actually still keep in touch with a couple of them. Actual talking, not Facebook stuff. Whatever you do, pursue this! Take her sledding, for wings, a beer or two, an out of the way cafe that you have to take a leisurely drive to. Guess what I'm saying is that you just need to go for it. Before you know it your 40 and you tend to spend a few more minutes out of your day reflecting back on "what ifs".

 

[SatinSilver]

Some of those coffee place girls are pretty cute and friendly. Then I see a big tip jar in front of me.

 

[zzyzzx]

We needs pics of this girl to better [censored] the situation.

 

[Cujet]

I liked a girl in my trig class, early on in my first year away from home. I asked her out and she laughed like crazy at me. It was quite funny really, when I figured out that I had pulled my shirt on "inside out" and backwards, while dressing in the dark that morning. We never did "go out" and it's just as well as we became friends, I discovered quickly that she was not my type. I ended up helping her barely pass the class (dumb as a box of rocks)

It's still funny after all these years!

 

[Vikas]

Originally Posted By: zzyzzx
We needs pics of this girl to better [censored] the situation.
The sensor is going crazy (I was going to use the word from the "crunchy and dried fruit category" but did not want to get censored myself!)

 

[SatinSilver]

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[Drew99GT]

Originally Posted By: 97prizm

Yeah Location would be helpful. Central to northern Colorado. Just had a couple inches of snow. She is a news/editorial magazine major i have a similar but not exact journalism major.


Take her to Steamboat for the weekend and see what happens!

 

[79sunrunner]

, (I just got out of my journalism class 5 minutes ago)

Here's a cute story, my first girlfriend sent me a message on Facebook saying hi and introduced herself. I had little interest in the goofy dating stuff, so I thought about ignoring her, but she was nice and I needed a good friend anyway. So we became friends and lator started dating. Her parents liked me (I think) and invited me everywhere, and I mean it! Her dad was a large member into a sports car club, and I was invited to drive 2013 Corvettes to and from the dealerships at car shows, and her mom was as sweet as could be. But the girl herself was the smartest in the school, and knowing her I made new friends (the best friends I ever had) We traveled, went to Chicago, spent a little too much money

. But after accepting that message on Facebook changed a part of me in ways I cannot type to describe. It was a person I'll never forget for the rest of my life, and I sure do miss her

And who knows, whatever you do, whether you meet for coffee, or see a movie, or go to the mall, she might be the person you spent a lot of time with or you might just marry her far into the future, or maybe leave an ever lasting impression on you.

Good luck

 

[rjundi]

Have a coffee or one beer/wine together. Easy exit for both.

If the simple works out the latter will.

 

[Tosh]

Before engaging in any regrettable hormone-induced shenanigans, you should ask to proof read her term paper, so you can analyze her handwriting for personality defects and hangups and general intellect match with yourself. If things go well there, then ask for a full body photo of her mother to gauge her likely future body morphology.