I would say never do hand tight plus a set fraction of a turn. You are relying on the profile shape and hardness of a $.005 washer to be consistent. I got almost burned on that, with following the directions even though the felt too loose... and they were loose, but I heard the first loose plug in time...
I had old snowmobiles as a kid so I've done 100's of plugs in aluminum heads without stripping one, or having one come loose and reused plugs with old washers a few times each.
IMO the best way is to tighten holding on to socket wrench with your hand on the head and feel the washer get squished down, and then you'll feel the washer squish and bottom, and then apply your spec torque, or go by feel with one finger on the socket handle.
I had old snowmobiles as a kid so I've done 100's of plugs in aluminum heads without stripping one, or having one come loose and reused plugs with old washers a few times each.
IMO the best way is to tighten holding on to socket wrench with your hand on the head and feel the washer get squished down, and then you'll feel the washer squish and bottom, and then apply your spec torque, or go by feel with one finger on the socket handle.