Ok, my 2 cents. YAY

.... Copper plugs 40k tops / Platinum 75k tops / Iridium is tricky. I'd say anywhere between 100k-130k tops. ONLY because the ground electrode starts to wear, carbon buildup on it, larger gap. The coils have to work harder to make that spark jump, possibly causing premature coil failure. Iridium plugs are cheap. Coils are not cheap. Yes, you must gap an Iridium plug before you install it. Take a vice grip to the electrode and move it. Don't touch the Iridium. Very brittle and will break. Give it a few taps on a vice to shorten gap if you went too wide. Stop obsessing over $ 15 dollars in plugs and just change them. Use OEM plugs, and gap accordingly. I like to use a tiny bit of anti-seize, ( Q-tip amount ). Haven't had a misfire yet. $ 15 dollars in plugs is a lot cheaper than coils, with plugs, and possibly CATS. Stop squawking and just change them . Ok. I'm done YAY

LOL