So sad, when did being respectful become lost

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No, thats the narrative that gets pushed but there are horribly evil people in this world that are not "mentally ill". The "illness" card they play is in an effort to absolve them from the responsibility for their crimes. Gang bangers are not "ill". They wilfully, purposely chose a life of crime, for example.

Then, far, far more good and law abiding people (10's of millions) own guns but don't commit crimes. Blaming guns for someone comitting a murder is like blaming a car for a drunk driving deaths or spoons and forks for obesity.
He did not "blame" guns. He blamed how easily people get access.
 
No, thats the narrative that gets pushed but there are horribly evil people in this world that are not "mentally ill". The "illness" card they play is in an effort to absolve them from the responsibility for their crimes. Gang bangers are not "ill". They wilfully, purposely chose a life of crime, for example.

Then, far, far more good and law abiding people (10's of millions) own guns but don't commit crimes. Blaming guns for someone comitting a murder is like blaming a car for a drunk driving deaths or spoons and forks for obesity.
No, most gang bangers are mentally ill, if you want to go by the scientific definition instead of the legal one.

There's the rub. There's a substantial % of society that IS mentally ill and we can't lock them ALL up, and can't let them all be free to roam around either. Most are functional members of society that don't commit the worst of crimes, if any, but there is a fair argument to be made for certain peoples' mental illness, contributing to their criminal tendencies.

That does not mean we can't teach them a lesson in prison and keep them away from society while they (hopefully) learn the error of their ways. If they can be mentally ill as free citizens, they can be mentally ill while incarcerated too.
 
Imagine getting that upset over McDonald's...couldn't pay me to eat that crap.
This situation has nothing to do with "eating that crap".

That person should have not gotten involved and should have called the police instead. He'd be alive today.
 
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There is huge problem with quality recruiters. We are down constantly 100-150 officers, and it is really hard to find quality folks.
Then, there was a pipeline from the military forever where a bunch of folks who should not be close to firearms found their way to agencies.
Things got bit better here lately after we bumped pay for like 40k over 4-5 year period, but it is still challenging. I work with them all the time, and know bunch who should never, ever be close to anything that involves firearms.
This LEO was 64 years old and had decades of experience.

My point was not to pick on LEO's - more that this just happened in the last couple weeks and is local to me. My point was that if a LEO with decades of experience dealing with idiots can't keep his head at a fast food joint then something in the world has completely broken. I am not a physiologist so I have no clue what, but its clear from my daily observations that some subset of society is crazy and the social contract of dealing with others around them doesn't exist.
 
Imagine getting that upset over McDonald's...couldn't pay me to eat that crap.
None of us know the full story, or both sides of the story. The victim was an attorney and they are trained litigators, so it might be reasonable to assume the attorney knew how to talk to an enraged individual with empathy. The full story may never be known. Murder appears very likely unjustified.
Empathy? He took it outside and got physical. Here’s an idea, counselor: whip out your wallet and give the guy some money. In my experience that has a magical calming effect on irate customers. That’s what the employee should have done. Remember the (actual) quote: The customer is always right in matters of taste. I’m not for rewarding bad behavior but most customers are good people and you have to move it along. My store even has a name for it, the appeasement card.
 
People have just gone nuts. Locally not more than a couple weeks ago an off duty LEO got into an argument with someone at Chick Fila, and when that someone tried to get in his car and leave the argument, the off duty LEO went to his own car, retrieved his firearm, and shot him dead. There is lots of video around, including the off duties wife trying to get the nutjob to calm down and leave the guy alone.

If a LEO can't stay calm over a chicken sandwich we don't stand a chance. Must be something in the water.

I tell my kids not to go anywhere with a crowd anymore.

https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-new...atal-shooting-driver-fleeing-fight-rcna147750

A LEO on a power trip? I'm completely shocked. <sarc>

I should be no surprise as people either treat them like they're gods gift to the world or truly despise them. The reality is that they fall somewhere in between.
 
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The story does not portray that:

"Instead of calming down, the gunman turned his attention to Limmer and the pair began to argue. The altercation turned physical as the two went to the parking lot, where Limmer shoved the man to the ground, cops said."

EDIT: However, what some of us are doing here is known as victim blaming, ignoring that the gunman in this case IS the real problem needing attention. It is a very sad story and all we are doing is speculating about an article with limited facts.

I wouldn't call if victim blaming. The victim physically assaulted the shooter and paid for it by the shooter who had even less common sense.
 
My guess would be that many of the folks that think any situation can be "de-escalated" have never had to deal with someone who is having a rage or manic episode. They simply cannot be placated in certain cases.
When I first started in EMS (26yrs as a paramedic) I had the notion (like many people) that people who were manic were not violent. I was wrong. My experiences tell me otherwise. I had a discussion years ago with a college professor who had taught psychology and had a private practice for 40+ yrs and he was shocked at the stories I related. He had never worked in the field and had no idea what went on, all he knew was his quiet office. There are plenty of days where I would have taken a trauma call over a psych call, the psych call can really suck the good out of you.

Given the sloppy nature of most reporting I would never begin to evaluate a situation from anything in the media. "good reporting isnt easy and easy reporting isnt good"
 
This LEO was 64 years old and had decades of experience.

My point was not to pick on LEO's - more that this just happened in the last couple weeks and is local to me. My point was that if a LEO with decades of experience dealing with idiots can't keep his head at a fast food joint then something in the world has completely broken. I am not a physiologist so I have no clue what, but its clear from my daily observations that some subset of society is crazy and the social contract of dealing with others around them doesn't exist.
This is not picking on them. There are serious mental issues behind it and many agencies cannot deal with it. They don’t have resources etc. A little of resources they have, goes to daily operations.
 
This is not picking on them. There are serious mental issues behind it and many agencies cannot deal with it. They don’t have resources etc. A little of resources they have, goes to daily operations.
I guess I missed the part in the article the shooter was diagnosed with behavioral health issues. I am not sure all the men beating and killing woman in Afghanistan have behavioral health issues, in most of those cases it cultural conditioning.
 
Numerous comments on the article's author stating the victim pushed the gunman in the McDonald's parking lot.

Life experience suggest to me that the victim pushing the gunman in the parking lot is not holistically accurate nor the whole story.
 
No, most gang bangers are mentally ill, if you want to go by the scientific definition instead of the legal one.
I agree. Hurting other people should make you feel bad. You should feel bad seeing others suffer, especially if it's due to your actions. If feel bad, you are by definition minimally a sociopath and if you actually enjoy hurting others you are a psychopath. These people of course exist on a continuum, some only showing their sociopathy and psychopathy under extreme conditions, and some lose it at McDonald.
 
I believe you, but this sort of thing did not happen 30 years ago. Things clearly have changed.
Police is expected to do A LOT these days. Local governments cut budgets drastically during 2007-2009 crisis, and LEO picked up that work. If you cut services, someone needs to pick up that work. Then, cutting budgets reflected on support services for LEO.
 
Look no further than what's happening on college campuses. Decency to your fellow man is becoming obsolete, even in institutions of higher learning.
 
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