For something like this, where the lip of the drum is NOT stuck to the brake pads but the the axle flange itself, you need an acetylene torch with a large tip on it. It's what I call a "rose bud" tip. This is NOT a cutting torch tip, but a tip that puts out a large, hot flame. What you need to do it to torch the area of the drum with this tip between the lug nut studs completely around the drum. Move the torch around the area quickly because you want to get the drum very warm, but the axle flange cool. A gentle tapping of the hammer might help, but quite often the drum just does a little "pop" and it's loose from the axle. When assembling, add just a small amount of high temp grease between the drum and the axle. I repeat a small amount. You don't want any of it to ever touch the brake pads.