It is no different anywhere else....
You have the same routine on every product you buy.... Businesses don't pay taxes >> That is just another expense they pass on to the customer/end user.
Same for trucking cost... Employees...insurance... rent.... etc... You as the end user pay it all..
It just so happens that "Big Oil" is being demonized right now and is a useful target for your misplaced anger.
What drives the oil prices up (outside of speculators) It is Government through the means of Taxation, Regulation, Mandates, and many many other way.
Remember to look passed the headlines and soundbytes.