Originally Posted By: Audi Junkie
Once you buy something, it's YOURS. You do not have to "prove" anything, except to law enforcement, and only if there is an allegation of a crime. It's MINE, leave me alone. When someone accuses you, they better be right, because that could have civil implications. That's how I understand it, the store HAS to be right to force a search or detainment. When asked if they could "see" my reciept, I say "no, because it's in my pocket and you don't have x-ray vision".
With a majpr purchase where you know they have a checker at the door, like Best Buy, I'll show the reciept. It's usually a single purchase that I made and it's not a big deal to take a second to verify everything. Stopping me after a long session of grocery shopping, after I waited in line and paid in PLAIN SIGHT of everyone in the store....no, it's too much of a burden and inappropriate.
Homie Depot came to my Phila neighbourhood. People were happy to have the convenience and savings of a big suppiler, plus developmant of the Deleware Riverfront. HD started checking reciepts, aggressively. They followed you to your car, blocked you in with carts, etc. Lucky the times it happened we had 2 people, one to move the cars and one to move the car. Pretty serious stuff. Funny though, their suburban stores did NOT check reciepts. One time, I bought baby shower gift, an air cleaner. Did/would not show my reciept. The security sicked a Phila cop on me, who was just lingering there. I said "no". "Store Policy", quoted the cop. I said you are not here to enforce "store policy", put rather to protect citizens. I asked WHO alledged I comitted a CRIME? He still detained me, and I finally caved-in. I regreted doing that. Went to see his supervisor the next day. He handled it better and explained that it all was part of the deal to get big stores to develop in the city, they expected the cops to (essentially) enforce "store policy". I said, "so you conspired to deny people their rights"? I was shown the door, point made.
If you let them treat everyone like a criminal, and then we are all living in a jail.
Actually, I don't think you have to prove you are innocent. They have to prove you are guilty.
So I wonder what would happen if you were to ask for them to indicate what makes them think that you have stolen something?
Failure to show your receipt is NOT evidence that you stole something.
In reality, in the grand scheme of life, it's probably not worth the hassle to make a stand for this at the store that wants to see the receipt.
I guess if you really wanted to make a scene, just turn around, go to the returns desk, and return everything, telling them you don't care to shop somewhere where you are presumed to be guilty of shoplifting.
And then never shop there again.