I took an suv with Goodyear fortitude ht tires offroading twice now, it was pretty dry so we didn't need much mud traction and the highway tires did as well on the rocks, sand, and dirt as my all terrains and my dad's duratracs. If you read the thread I linked, the Michelin tires do great offroad. Their only shortcoming is deep mud, and all the people who say you can't offroad with highway tires.
And OP said he couldn't stand a loud tire, the michelins are pretty quiet. OP also said he wanted something long lasting. Again, michelins (although some all terrains last a long time) third, he said he wanted an all terrain but he didn't say whether he would actually take it off-road