Hmm that is not my experience. For the most part, most modern motors from reputable brands I have owned - Chevrolet, Toyota, Subaru, Honda, Dodge, Ford, BMW, Mercedes - will make it to 250k. It’s everything else that goes. 1GRs for a Toyota are certainly durable motors but there are other similar durable motors from other brands as well.
We have a 2017 4Runner my soon uses. Great truck. The 4th gen we had before it was good too, right up until around 275k when it wouldn’t pass inspection due to frame rust.
They all wear out. Father Time comes for everyone and everything.
Have a good day.