i have various filter tools, but for the most part i use filter pliers or by-hand to take them off, and by-hand to put them on. i guess it all depends on how accessible the filter is, etc.
for those who like the fram grippy filter feature but dont like to use fram, buy a case of you favorite filter and then dip the ends into Herculiner (or similiar) product. you could even roll the ends in some anti-skid grit (or clean sand) for extra grip, etc. but its just quicker/easier/less expensive to use a filter socket to put filter on/off.
as for the screwdriver bit, yeah, had to do that once on my brother's ford truck. he cranked it down so tight it was like the rubber gasket fused itself to both sides. wound up torqing and crushing the filter in an effort to get it off. finally had to finess it with a rubber strap wrench right at the base.