would the pliers type wrench work for you? it work on the J37 on my 2009 mdx, but i am not sure about j35.. maybe you can try it.
other method i use, is stuff sand paper, or shim wood into the cup type oil filter remover. but my experiences is the pliers type provide the most force. but do not over tighten when using the pliers, as it may deform the oil filter housing. best luck!
other method i use, is stuff sand paper, or shim wood into the cup type oil filter remover. but my experiences is the pliers type provide the most force. but do not over tighten when using the pliers, as it may deform the oil filter housing. best luck!