Is the Ram in good shape? If it is I would do whatever it takes to feel I was keeping it that way. I have an 07' Subaru bought new and only put 1500-3K mi/yr on it. I put Quaker State Ultimate Durability oil in it, change it every 6 mo, get it up to temp and drive it for a while when I do. Have an 86' Chevy that is worse than a beater I use more often maybe 3-4K mi/yr but don't worry about. Just keeping it running, whatever it takes. Since the Subaru is newer with FI instead of a carb I use the oil I drain from the Subaru in it. I'd run the oil in the Subaru longer if I used it more.
I'm thinking of draining and changing the filters every other oil change in both cars. Thinking about adding a 2nd filter to the Subaru. The ones that are supposed to filter to 1 micron.
Both cars take less than 5 qts to fill, and the Subaru 4.2, so I put 4 in and save a qt to put a fresh qt in the Chevy when I change, to get some fresh additives. I like using 5W30 in the winter, and 10W in the summer. If I was using new oil in the Chevy, it would be as cheap as I could find. It used to use oil, but since putting in the used Quaker State Ultimate Durability I haven't had to add between changes.