Originally Posted By: John_K
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I totally agree. My deceased Dad was a mechanic, built his own house, did his own repairs and taught me plenty. Most guys I know nowdays can't even turn a screw, largely for the reasons listed above. And I am amazed how many times, if I have my hood up in the driveway, a neighbor will run over and say "what's wrong?" Nothing's wrong, I'm just checking on things or replacing a filter or something. They'll reply with "Oh, I take it somewhere for that."
Oh its not even an can't, its a won't. They are too frightened to actually attempt something.
I was asked to help fix a dishwasher a couple weeks ago by my wife's friends husband. Get over there, he's got the door open and racks out but that's it. Beyond sliding out the racks (which aren't attached) he had done nothing. No tools out. He was actually "afraid to do anything else cause I don't wanna break something". 5 minutes of google-fu and I had a parts diagram of the machine and had the upper and lower spray arms off with a torx bit and my fingers. Cleaned out the spray nozzles (clogged with cellophane of some type) and reassembled.
With the amount of information available on nearly anything at everyone's fingertips, there is no excuse for not at least attempting to trouble shoot some around the house issues.
Originally Posted By: fdcg27
I think you're right.
Many modern males don't understand the simple joy of weekend DIY work on their cars, their houses or even their lawns and plantings.
There is great satisfaction in being able to fix things yourself.
Many modern men don't seem to understand that there are better uses for weekends than shopping or watching videos or sports.
No wonder you see so many still young men with serious weight problems.
They never actually get up and do anything requiring physical effort.
This as well.
Then pride themselves on being able to do "fix" their own computers which involves almost zero physical effort. I can fix my own computers. I usually build my own. It is not a skill that makes me feel self sufficient though.
Originally Posted By: someguy
I agree that American men can be lazy but I also disagree. Some people can be handy in other ways. My dad is a DIY guy had a technical degree and...
On the other hand my father in law has business degrees and did teaching, business, accounting etc.. but around the house they call him two thumbs.
I don't see either as more of a man just different type of men. If everybody could fix stuff and work around the house there would be no side projects for us to take care of and be the hero.
Its not about any one activity being "more manly" than the other, its about being too afraid to attempt an activity. At least your F-I-L has been willing to attempt some DIY even if he is Mr. 2thumbs.