Originally Posted By: buickman50401
Originally Posted By: Bladecutter
Originally Posted By: buickman50401
I think it has more to do with the loss of the renaissance man over the past couple of decades. The "sensitive males" that have come out of this last couple of generations are not just inexperienced with basic mechanical skills, they were never encourage to develop them and are outright scared to even attempt anything.
I'm curious what age group you believe these "sensitive males" are consisting of? What year would you say that they started being born around?
My father, born in '33, wouldn't pick up a wrench to save his soul, for anything. Myself, however, born in '74, haven't any hangups when it comes to pulling out a variety of tool boxes, depending on the task at hand. Oil changes, motorcycle and car tire changes, motorcycle front fork rebuilds, Ducati Desmodromic valve adjustments, you name it, I have tools for it, and its going to be satisfying when its done.
Correctly the first time, too.
Can't say the same about so many different car and motorcycle shops out here.
I have yet to run into a vehicle I couldn't do an oil change on. I also have yet to strip a drain plug, or forget to tighten anything down properly. Yet you hear about so many quickie oil change places doing that on a regular basis.
BC.
Regardless of your father's proclivities, self-reliance used to be something that was admired, and part of that was being willing to attempt to DIY some things. Unfortunately, those things are associated with being a male and the misandry movement and people of certain political persuasions are all about "fighting the patriarchy", so rather than those qualities being admired and instilled in our children (male and female), they sort of started to get abandoned around the mid to late 80s.
Couple that with the more recent (last couple decades) myth that everyone has to go to college and that the trades are looked down on and thus generally not taught in many schools any longer and you get a couple of generations that were raised as seeing physical work, even if it was just DIY stuff around the house as being beneath them leaving them as adults at a point where they either still hold that opinion or are just so scared to even attempt it (having had no prior exposure) that we get things like what is being discussed in relation to oil changes.
I totally agree. My deceased Dad was a mechanic, built his own house, did his own repairs and taught me plenty. Most guys I know nowdays can't even turn a screw, largely for the reasons listed above. And I am amazed how many times, if I have my hood up in the driveway, a neighbor will run over and say "what's wrong?" Nothing's wrong, I'm just checking on things or replacing a filter or something. They'll reply with "Oh, I take it somewhere for that."
John