As Drew99GT noted and demarpaint re-iterated, get the cooling system pressure tested to see if it's leaking.
Fire up the engine when it's cold, hasn't run all night. Then if the radiator hose pressurizes in a short time, well before the coolant can heat up and pressurize, then you will know that combustion pressure is leaking into the coolant, and thus coolant also is leaking into the oil. Not sure it this always happens, as a slow enough gasket leak may not pressurize as quickly, so try this, but also get the standard cooling system pressure test which is very simple, they just screw a pressure gauge on where the radiator cap goes, pump it up and see if it holds.
Fire up the engine when it's cold, hasn't run all night. Then if the radiator hose pressurizes in a short time, well before the coolant can heat up and pressurize, then you will know that combustion pressure is leaking into the coolant, and thus coolant also is leaking into the oil. Not sure it this always happens, as a slow enough gasket leak may not pressurize as quickly, so try this, but also get the standard cooling system pressure test which is very simple, they just screw a pressure gauge on where the radiator cap goes, pump it up and see if it holds.