Carlostrece
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Selling the car seems like a financially sound and sensible solution (offered by @facility1), but that's based on incomplete info. We don't know the OPs full situation. The OP has reasons for wanting to keep their car. Reasons that are sensitive enough that the OP does not want to publicly explain them, and feels emotional distress when someone suggests getting rid of the car.It's really not a dumb solution. How much do you pay in car insurance? How much for the tag? Not to mention depreciation and an oil change. Unless you're keeping it for sentimental purposes, I don't see how the math maths on this.
I'm a handicapped person. I can understand and relate to a person wanting to keep their car even if they can't drive it much (or at all). My car is only driven 400 miles a year (by others), but I'm keeping it for life. I would feel distressed if someone told me I should sell my car.
I can no longer drive a car at all, but hanging on to my Buick is one of my last shreds of independence and dignity, and maintaining it is a good hobby. Maintaining it is also a necessity because getting stranded it a serious problem if you're old or handicapped.
Even though other people (cousin, caregiver, neighbor) drive my Buick with me in passenger seat, it's still important for me as reliable, comfortable transportation and helps me maintain some normalcy, dignity, and independence.
I don't know what the OP's situation is, but there's probably a valid reason the OP can't drive their car much, and an equally valid reason the OP wants to keep it. Since he/she wants to keep it, there's also a valid desire to take care of it.
If the OP's situation is anything like mine, these are the last cars we'll ever own.
Imagine if the car you have now is the last car you'll ever own, and imagine you're handicapped and can't walk or ride a bicycle. You'd care about your car a lot (regardless of miles driven). Also imagine the distress you'd feel if someone told you you should get rid of your last ever car.
I don't know if the above applies to the OP, but it's a possible scenario that may explain the OPs situation and sensitivity to the suggestion to sell the car. It's certainly my situation.
I know Facility1 and Tired meant well with their suggestion to sell car, but IMO we should assume the OP has unknown valid reasons why the car can't be driven much, can't be driven on highway, is strongly desired to keep, and desires basic maintenance. Also we should assume there are unknown valid reasons the OP strongly wants to keep the car.
That said, how often should the oil be changed to keep car in decent condition? My vote is what @himemsys said in post 11.
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