There's drawbacks to brands like HPL, Amsoil, and Red Line. The lack of availability locally is one, the cost of shipping is another (though Amsoil offers free shipping above a certain amount, I think), and few approvals and certifications for those who care about that. The pros is more personal customer service, better transparency, and higher quality lubricants not constrained by approvals and certifications or price competition on the Walmart shelf. Those of us who use these brands of oil have decided the pros far outweigh the cons. Others will see the cons as a bigger issue. It's when people start attacking the pros over their annoyance of the cons that it becomes a problem.
Each person's pros and cons will differ. For example, I view API certifications (and some OEM approvals) as cons quite often as I feel they set too low of a bar for engine protection, give too much priority to marginal specs, create ceilings in performance through restriction of specific chemistry, and (inadvertently) incentivize brands to formulate to a minimum standard at the lowest production cost. For me, HPL is an ideal choice because they aren't constrained by that little API box. Instead, they step way outside that box and use better materials and additive chemistry that API tends to prohibit. Their standard is way above API's ceiling. Others won't see it that way and that's fine. I'm not going to force someone to use HPL, but I will get defensive if you try to say they suck simply because you can't get 20 gallons of them on rebate at your local parts store or they refuse to substantially lower their standards to API level to please someone that was never going to be a customer anyway.