I am sorry for your loss. It is not easy to face cancer and/or death at any age. But, I know that it is difficult to face it so young.
My Dad Tony (Bio-T) passed away as many of you know in January after a 7 month battle with lung cancer. It was extremely difficult on my daughter - now 17 - to see her Grandpa get so sick. To make it worse in December my husband was diagnosed with terminal prostate cancer.
She just started her senior year of high school today. I know that she'll be ok no matter what happens. I can understand a bit of what you & your friend are going through.
My condolences to you, your friend, and his family. Take care!!!!