Anecdotal, but I've had 4 Japanese vehicles over the last 20 years that I've driven from new to over 200K miles. All very well maintained by yours truly. 1 Toyota and 3 Nissans. I still have two, a 2012 with 200K and an '06 with 235K. With good maintenance, they were able to make it to 200K easily. Three of them have been V8s for what it's worth - in terms of being unstressed during normal use, but they all did a lot of towing.
Around, or shortly after 200K, they all started having more random failures. Sensors, door lock actuators, light bulbs, bushings, etc. The cost to own between 100K and 200K was maintenance plus a random radiator, starter, and wheel bearings. After 200K they became more of an - "is it a good idea to take this car on a 5K mile trip tomorrow?" thought. I still drive them on the long trips, but it is not without forethought.
One of my kids is getting ready to go to college, she needs to be able to reliably make 7 hour trips home and back, and I won't be there to keep an eye on, and/or fix her car. I'll likely try to find her the lowest mileage Toyota, Honda, or equiv. with high safety ratings and minimal reliability issues. I've been torn betwen a Hybrid RAV4 or Mazda CX5/CX50 or a Civic/Corolla. She prefers driving smaller cars, as do I, but there is something to be said for being a little higher and having a little more interior space.