Malwaretips.com. It's sort of like a BITOG type atmosphere there but for computer security nerds. Also Bleepingcomputer.com, same thing. Malwaretips moves faster though. I like learning all I can about online threats, scams and security. Bleepingcomputer.com, Tenforums.com and Wilderssecurity.com are also very good for learning how computers work and how to avoid/deal with scams and infections.
I also spend some time at HeavyHarmonies.com, Blabbermouth.net and SleazeRoxx.com, those are all hard rock/melodic rock sites. I am not on BITOG as much as I used to be.