Since this occurs because of HEAT, install the biggest ATF cooler that you can find. What size cooler did you install? pre or post factory cooling?
Monitoring an ATF temp gauge to see what temp the problem occurs at and keeping the ATF below that might be cheaper than a new VB.
Am$oil was the wrong ATF to use when using fluid to debug a mechanical problem.
ATF thins at temperature and the thin ATF is more likely to blow-by the tired and worn VB. A thicker ATF might be a better choice. Pennzoil/QS high(er) mileage ATF is one the thickest at 8.5 cst. Most ATFs are in the ~7ish range. Old sheared fluid could be as low a ~5-6.
Or, try a bottle of transmission snot.
The Sonnax kit, along with the required tools, can cost as much as the VB. Buy the rebuilt VB from your dealer(or online store).
How many miles on that transmission? and maintenance history?
What you need to consider is the cost/benefit of the VB vs the cost of the new transmission when it fails.
Either drive it as is until the tranny falls out, or fix it now and hope that it will last a few years.
IMO, if it has over 150k miles, its a good core for rebuilding(wait 'til it fails). If it has under 80k, I'd fix/replace the VB now.