Well without hard proof we are stuck were we are always stuck. Thick vs thin.It really is disheartening to see all the sarcasm and negativity in some of these posts.
I agree on a couple/three quick things.
"Excessive viscous" oil is not good in a application where this relatively high viscosity is not needed, leading to possibly more wear on start up in cold climates and flow problems, more wear in applications with tiny oil ports/passages and extremely small wear surface gaps
Ultra low viscosity is not better in a high load, high heat, heavy duty applications with large oil ports and large wear surface gaps
Of course there is sweet range, most cars it is a bit wider than shown in the OM. Hence people running 30 and 40 range oils in 20 recommended range engines probably does not cause harm.