Update:
Thought I would share our experiences in the last week.
1) We decided to focus on 2002-2005 Honda's. As someone mentioned here anything under $5,000 (we even upped to $7K) has to the moon mileage. I assume these are kept in most peoples families. We chose to expand our search.
2) Ford Focus (within price range). Almost as hard to find but we did seriously conside two
3) He wanted to test drive a Taurus and even a couple Grand Marquis (I had two of these and he thought as a kid they were cool in an old man kind of way). He didnt feel comfortable in the Taurus or GM's (shame since we found two 2004 GM's is great condition with under 50K miles). His mother want's thrilled with RWD either
4)2006 Neon - Available through a fried, he loved it and we were ready to do a deal
So what did he get...... a 2003 PT Cruiser with 27K miles (gifted from my In laws, they unfortunately found out that my Mother In law can no longer drive (Alzheimers) FIL cant drive due to stroke. They wouldn't take any cash for it but we will compensate them anyway.
Purchased new by them it's completely stock (even the tires). My son and I went through the cars and replaced the belts (alt belt was a @#!$), front brakes,rotors, brake flush. We ordered a new electric rad fan (low speed not working properly, not overheating but AC operation and warm idle affected, known issue. He wont be driving until we do this job.
We also will be doing a tuneup, filters and a battery, ATF drain and fill filter replaced, coolant drain and fill with thermostat (hoses look good but will remove to inspect). Interior and exterior are excellent but we I am doing the whole detail process with him. He has been involved in the whole process (working on the car, finding/ordering parts) and is enjoying himself. he's keeping a maintenance log with receipts and caught him a couple times reading ahead in the Chilton and Hayes manuals and on-line for steps on how to do our next jobs which is good and that engine compartment is tight. In laws are thrilled he likes it (They weren't sure) and he truly appreciated their generosity.
All's well