Help me pick a good "date car" to buy

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Originally Posted By: Falken
A Honda Element and a dog.

Bring the dog with you on the date.

Chicks like that kind of stuff.

And, you are at least guaranteed a kiss at the end of the night!


From the chick or the dog? Either way, I guess you are going to be ahead.
 
Chrysler 200 convertible.

My Sebring was the best date car I ever had. I can't explain it. There's really no good reason. But it was. Women loved to go out in that car.

If it's clean and comfortable, most women don't care about what badge is on it. If the woman in question requires a three pointed star or a blue and white roundel, she is not worth your time. She's probably not worth the pricetag on the jewelry she is wearing that some sucker bought her trying to impress her.
 
Originally Posted By: LoneRanger
Okay so here's the deal. I'm back in the fray after about 25 yrs, i.e. single again (widowed actually) since 2012 and at the point where I want to get back in the game. Been out a few times but nothing serious just the meet-them-there lunches. Okay enough of the Lifetime Channel part and into the Speed Channel (or Spike) part. The Forester made sense when I bought it in 2008, was married and there was a tight budget, hence its a base model w/ manual transmission, low quality sound system (Subaru base sound equipment is particularly tinny and flat sounding, think 1977 here). I'm thinking if I was in my 20's, might be able to get away with picking her up in a stick shift Subaru. Or even if I lived in Colorado and had ski racks on the top. But I'm 51 and live in the eastern midwest flatlands of the farm belt. Yeah the Soob is handy as heck when we get bad winter weather, and it's handly for hauling bags of mulch or assorted smaller things from Home Depot. But it just doesn't seem to click as the ride want to pick up a date in. Now, I'm not talking gweedo territory here and donning gold chains, putting a rug on my bald head and pulling up in a Vette. Ah... no. But I'm thinking along the lines of a car that fits my personality, which is reserved and leans conservative, and which says I'm not struggling financially but not trying to flaunt anything either. I've always had a soft spot for the newer Chrysler 300's, and rented V6 one last month for a short highway trip and really liked it. But there's also this little voice in the back of my head saying there needs to be some utility for those occasional trips to Home Depot. Another little voice says about the idea of the Chrysler: "You'd be buying a dinosaur..." You know what I'm talking about... full size rear drive sedan layout. But its still a nice car. Sure a Mustang and I like the new ones a lot, but impractical and again, the bald middle age guy in a sport car thing again.

So, what say the BITOG advisory panel about this? Keep the Soob and if she makes a character judgment based on what I show up in then she's being shallow and better to find out early than later on? Also, I would buy pre-owned like the 2014's you see with several thousand miles on them... program cars I think they're called. Max of $26,500 out the door.

Something like an F150 or Silverado truck would not be out of the question but don't know how the womens react to trucks these days. Been out of it too long.

I dont know how you feel about it, it seems like you are looking new, but a used Magnum R/T or SRT with low miles would be awesome, as well as a 300 SRT. On another note, a Mercury Marauder is kind of unique, and if done right a cherry Impala SS is awesome. I also have a soft spot for lincoln continentals (32V DOHC 4.6) or MKVIII, same deal, basically mustang cobra engines in low slung, mean looking packages. As far as trucks go- my wife LOVES my F250 4x4. Most new trucks are pretty pricy. You might be able to swing a 4x2 single cab like a Ram Express with a Hemi for around that much. Depends on what kind of girl you want. I like countryish girls (not chicks that dip skoal or anything), and my wife is kind of country. Practical country, not redneck country if you get my meaning. If you want a new sporty coupe, I really like the Altima coupe, really nice looking.
 
"I'm thinking along the lines of a car that fits my personality, which is reserved and leans conservative, and which says I'm not struggling financially but not trying to flaunt anything either."

I think you already have the car that best suits your personality. I don't think a sincere woman that would be a good match for you would find your Subaru to be a deal breaker. Unless, of course, it is full of old McDonalds bags.

Remember, you are looking for advice from an anal/obsessive bunch of guys on a website dedicated to MOTOR OIL!!
 
Chicks love subarus! Sometimes you'll see two in one at a time with no guys!

As long as you have stuff like remote keyless entry so you won't fumble around opening her door and stuff.

It takes a while to really learn a car, if you fumble around in something new it'll look like you lack confidence, or competence. Put stuff like an extra fleece sweatshirt in the trunk so if she gets cold you're "there for her".
 
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Sorry to hear of your predicament and wishing you all the best navigating your next adventure in life. Take care
 
This thread is skipping along better than I thought it would. Actually, the biggest thing that bugs me about the Forester lately is the stick shift. Truth told, I'm getting a little tired of a manual. And the Soob has pretty short ratios between cogs... good for fire trails and soft-roading off the beaten path but on the tarmac you're shifting to 2nd before you're to the other side of the intersection. Top gear (5th) rpm is 3100 @ 75mph. Which is no problem for the engine, smooth as silk and only half way into it's rpm range at that speed but still has a busy sound to it when rowing through the gears. Soob manual trans's are notoriously difficult to finesse smoothly through the range without at least a random lurch once in a while, no matter how used to it you are. The Forester shifts more like a truck than a car for sure; long clutch throw and long lever throw.

I still have a soft spot for it and all, just seems like time to re-evaluate.
 
On my first date I was impressed my now-wife could drive. We went dutch and I followed her on an on-ramp and could barely keep up.

If you can row the gears and parallel park and keep the heat where she likes it while listening to her chitchat you'll go far.

I guess in today's world if you can charge her cell phone that's a plus, too.
 
Originally Posted By: walk23
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I sweat and toil
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Good for you for getting back in the game..of life, that is. Hopefully with a new lass, too.

Here's my take: Everyone here will give you very self important advice, but I say part of the transition here for you isn't so much about what chicks will think of your ride, but how that ride makes you feel, it's important for you to feel good about this big life step you're taking.

So, I'd go to an auto show and kick the tires and see which car makes you feel best about you. When you feel good, you project that to others, so whatever you decide will be fine. Girls really don't care about cars, anyways, you know..
 
Girls like pickup trucks at least the best kind of girls do. Get you a dodge ram with a hemi
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or a silverado. The f150 is the least favorite among most girls i know. I would definitely get a ram if it was me. Theyre cool and bad a$$.
If you insist on a car then look into well a muscle car obviously. Honestly though why do you need a fancy car for a date? If they judge you on your car tell them to move along. My suggestions though are serious.
 
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