Exactly. In my day every guy played guitar. We’d carry them everywhere and meet women easily. Today, no need, use an app. But that guy using the app is just as happy as we were playing guitar. To each his own.
I never played ice hockey growing up even though it was New England and my town had two rinks. I did skate and play pond hockey. The sport was way too expensive for my parents to even consider. My kid plays and I enjoy being a hockey parent.
Working on cars for me is a money saving thing. I’m not more manly for it and nobody should feel it’s a must as a man. Jmoymmv