Several of you seem to have somehow gotten the idea that I spend my life in a castle covetously clutching my gold coins. I try to make my life a balanced blend of times for savoring, storing, dissecting, perfecting, healing, resting, and protecting and other times for discovery, spontaneity, exploration, addition, progression, and testing. Something like that anyway. Everything in moderation, including moderation, as I always say. Anyway...
Some people perceive a controlling structure as mostly liberating; I happen to see it as mostly oppressive. This is partly due to differences in our personalities and tastes (not bad or good, just different). Some, when they are able to achieve simply the "better part" of their goal, or set their goal from the beginning as something more reasonable [read: attainable] are perfectly content in their own eyes. Your final impression also partially depends on whether your goals are more oriented towards completing a task for its own sake, and/or completing a task to reach an end (so to speak).
If the controlling-structure-is-liberating folks are lucky, sometimes following the structure gives them what they want, but not always. In an admittedly submissive (<----I was looking for a stronger-sounding word here) position you are much easier to be taken advantage of. If this doesn’t bother you all to pieces, perhaps you see this as sort of a trade-off. Support for control. Fine and dandy, as long as you’re happy, and you fully understand and are prepared for the fact that the noose could become a little too tight at any given moment. At least part of that sloppy, steaming load I shoveled into this forum earlier is really true, I swear. If you have nothing to trade and nothing to defend yourself with, you need to get up off your butt. Sometimes people take because they want or need to (and rightly so), and while you may have a trick or two up your sleeve now in case you get cornered, if you don’t use it you lose it. You may find yourself not only without a crutch and a map one day, but find them fighting you to the death: that is not the time to decide you need to develop self-reliance. It is also equally possible that structure is appealing partly because you tend to see things as immovable or unchangeable. While I’m personally with you for a good bit of this, constantly operating in this thought pattern can result in you missing legitimate opportunities to swing things your way or discover a new passion. If you have been doing nothing but coloring inside someone else's lines your whole life, it’s going to be that much more difficult for you to break character when you “ought” to.
To some degree, certain qualities of the controlling-structure-is-liberating crowd are a good thing, because they signify awareness of limitation (both in need and ability). Just don't sell yourself short. I have absolutely no doubt in my mind that there are plenty of folks who have laid their soul under a microscope and still concluded that they want to live in and by a system, and others who don’t know what will benefit them because they lack self-awareness. I honestly have no ill-will towards the first, but “gnothi sauton” to the latter. There are people who will offer to help you (in exchange for some kind of gain of their own) find what you want if you do not think you can do it on your own. Maybe it’s a therapist, maybe it’s your mom, maybe it’s your pastor, maybe it’s a book. Whatever helps... helps.
Neither the position of the dependent nor the anarchist nor any derivation thereof is innately favorable. One orientation may provide varying degrees of utility over another for different people in different contexts, but what is “useful” is very relative anyway. At any rate, I find nothing wrong with a person operating contentedly in whatever manner AS LONG AS YOU KNOW WHAT YOU’RE REALLY DEALING WITH. Making personal decisions regarding what will make you the most happy will most decidedly not be to your benefit if you make these decisions based on misinformation. The role of the responsible educator is not to shove a lifestyle down your throat; it’s to provide information, perhaps coupled with some insight, and then give you a slap on the ________ to get you going. In that spirit I continue my rant:
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The distinction is profound. Ownership is the full panorama of rights associated with property, including the right to delegate its possession, property of course including both the tangible as well as the intangible. Possession, or possessing, generally is something less than ownership, such as a qualified right in property, although some types of possession (there are many) may have many of the attributes of ownership.
Re-read how many times you used the word “rights” in your statement, and then look at where those words are positioned. I assure you that’s of significance. You have no “rights” to speak of unless other people agree you do.
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Possession, or possessing, generally is something less than ownership
That’s how it’s commonly understood for whatever reason; only this difference is strictly due to differences in perception on the part of the people involved. Would you say that you “own” your house, but not the soda you bought at the store? Why? Because you risk more losing it? Because more of you was invested in obtaining it? Those are both perfectly valid reasons to craft the mysterious concept of ownership status in the minds of others. Control over the house is more desired by you and other people than control over the soda. You need to convince those people that this taboo of the “untouchable” owned object cannot be broken, and if that doesn’t work, you need to convince them the almighty hand of ________ (or if not Him, the law, and if not the law, your gun) will reach out with malice if they cross the line if you desire to reduce the likelihood of losing your valued possession. The judicious use of this imaginary line "taboo" defense is perfectly functional in many instances, but you need to be aware of its limitations. One day someone is going to come along who has a full realization of what it really means for something to “belong” to you. You can kiss that object goodbye if you’re totally relying on the effectiveness of your indoctrination. The barter system is alive (but maybe not well) even among thieves though. In the case of theft at gunpoint, I trade the promise of my safety for goods. Exactly the same structure as any other tit for tat exchange — no difference. Maybe this is harder to grasp if you don’t have a sick criminal mind. You’re a good man Charlie Brown, and I know you wouldn’t steal from me. I’ll respect the blood, sweat, and tears that went into acquiring your article of value if you return the favor. Too bad not everyone is like you. Often times it seems that the ones who have no collateral at risk if they break their end of the “deal” are the same ones who have an affinity for theft. Coincidence?
And FYI, anarchy does not = every man for himself. An anarchy is a cooperative network of people with either a non-existent or very weakened system of government. Just sayin...