There is some truth to this. I definitely lean into the geekery and have all the apps. This despite the fact we usually fly if we're going somewhere beyond 3 hours away, i.e., Dallas or Houston. We have driven my Lightning to South Padre, that's probably about the farthest we'd go that isn't on a plane, it's about 400 miles each way. We plan the charging stops around meals and shopping so that we minimize the time sink.My personal observation (of people I know and seen) is that the stereotypical EV owner is a pretty nerdy guy who gets into using apps for everything and gets a kick out of the extra planning and strategy required to get from A to B in an EV. OTOH someone like my wife would go into a panic if she had to plan out when and where to charge using an app on long trips, and she would forget to do it until some alarm went off. It would add a lot of stress for her.
My wife loves her EV and only has ever charged at home. I do keep an NACS adapter in her car so she could Tesla charge if she had to. But she never has.