As someone who prefers mechanical shifting I surmised we would soon reach the point where mechanical shifting would not be available in a high quality group set; it was "now or never" to get a new bike. Is this really the last year of mechanical shifting Ultegra? Wow. Looks I really did order my new bike just in time!... Point is now moot going forward as the new Ultegra is di2 only.
... di2 and mechanical feel about the same assuming you’ve got optislick cables, sp-41 housing, clean lubricated derailleurs. The difference is that unlike mechanical it just doesn’t degrade, my wife never washes her di2 and even after it being packed with dirt, cow ****, and residual hard water from rain it still shifts like a brand new mechanical group out of the box despite looking like Garey Busey’s mugshot at times.
Regarding how it performs under abuse, my experience differs. As mentioned above, I've put mechanical shifting through serious abuse and hard conditions, far more than most people do. Not only on road bikes which are easy service, but also mountain bikes and our tandem, have held up just fine, no degradation, no problems over many years, thousands of miles, lots of dirt, mud, etc.