Thanks for the ideas. OE fluid from Bmw dealer is very expensive. As I stated earlier I can only get Febi 75w80 hypoid G1 GL5 and Febi 75w85 Hypoid G3 GL5.
Both has bmw recommendations. 70w80 is for my G20 as I see but it says until 2 / 20 and my car was produced at 7/ 20 which is a little bit confusion too.
75w85 is for f30 which was my previous Bmw.
Trying 75w85 is less risky i think as it is in the middle range between 70w80 and 75w90... .
There is no risk in using 75w90. You are not in a "cold climate".
If you can't get 75w90 for a reasonable price then I would use 75w85 but I would not use 75w85 to save money.
Again, viscosity is not that important until you hit the extremes (temperature / racing). 75w85 should be slightly more efficient than 75w90 at the potential cost of wear. Wear contaminates the fluid and leads to more wear if not changed out in time. You won't really know unless you use continuous testing to monitor your application.