In some belief systems around the world, wearing fragrance is a form of charity, a gift to others. I always treat those around me to something beautiful. Dousing is not the case with me.
And I do have it on good word that fragrance on a man is the closest thing to flipping a switch on a female to create attraction. I try to make the rest of myself as appealing as possible. Hence the short and lined up beard and hair.
A lot of females do come through there. They need wiper blades and what not.
One day after helping a female with her gas cap issue, she rejected me. I said something straightforward like you're really pretty, take my number. She said "I can't be doing that." But as I'm walking away, she said, "well, you're really pretty, too." I turned around, smiled and kept walking. It like wasn't really rejecting me but just rejecting the idea of starting something with a random dude with zero connection beforehand. I just never press, accept the no. But if there ever was a time I should have tried to at least suggest that maybe she should reconsider, that was it.
I just feel like pursuing a female when she said no once is just insulting to me. Have self respect. I would miss out on her, but she misses out on me.
One female years after we first hung out told me that it really stuck out that I approached her that day. It just doesn't really happen during the day, like ever, for most females. So when it does, it's memorable, if they say yes or no.
One time a female approached me in public, and I was glad that I showered that day. I always try to be ready for females, anywhere. The one time I don't look and smell great always ends up being regrettable.
https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/radiolab/id152249110?mt=2&i=1000400487102
Kinda like this Radio Lab episode here, when the presenter they are talking about who passed away, Joe Frank, shared a story about seeing a woman in an elevator. He like falls in love with her in a few seconds, takes out a receipt from his pocket to write his number, studies it like it's important, puts it back in his pocket, and wants to say "I'm the guy you've been looking for, love of your life, can't you recognise it's me!" But says nothing. That happened once a day to him with a random female. Happens to me also.
It amazes me how I feel like that with random females I don't know at all. I don't know if she bathes regularly. Or anything that may make me say never mind.
Life is tough.
And I do have it on good word that fragrance on a man is the closest thing to flipping a switch on a female to create attraction. I try to make the rest of myself as appealing as possible. Hence the short and lined up beard and hair.
A lot of females do come through there. They need wiper blades and what not.
One day after helping a female with her gas cap issue, she rejected me. I said something straightforward like you're really pretty, take my number. She said "I can't be doing that." But as I'm walking away, she said, "well, you're really pretty, too." I turned around, smiled and kept walking. It like wasn't really rejecting me but just rejecting the idea of starting something with a random dude with zero connection beforehand. I just never press, accept the no. But if there ever was a time I should have tried to at least suggest that maybe she should reconsider, that was it.
I just feel like pursuing a female when she said no once is just insulting to me. Have self respect. I would miss out on her, but she misses out on me.
One female years after we first hung out told me that it really stuck out that I approached her that day. It just doesn't really happen during the day, like ever, for most females. So when it does, it's memorable, if they say yes or no.
One time a female approached me in public, and I was glad that I showered that day. I always try to be ready for females, anywhere. The one time I don't look and smell great always ends up being regrettable.
https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/radiolab/id152249110?mt=2&i=1000400487102
Kinda like this Radio Lab episode here, when the presenter they are talking about who passed away, Joe Frank, shared a story about seeing a woman in an elevator. He like falls in love with her in a few seconds, takes out a receipt from his pocket to write his number, studies it like it's important, puts it back in his pocket, and wants to say "I'm the guy you've been looking for, love of your life, can't you recognise it's me!" But says nothing. That happened once a day to him with a random female. Happens to me also.
It amazes me how I feel like that with random females I don't know at all. I don't know if she bathes regularly. Or anything that may make me say never mind.
Life is tough.
