Originally Posted By: JimPghPA
Unfortunately your dad is correct. I have seen transmissions that go bad if the fluid and filter was not changed often and then the fluid was changed. Seams that the grit in the fluid helps those transmissions get the last part of their life.
As to weather 65K it is too late for the transmission you have, it is a hard one to make a call on. If the fluid is still red and has no brown particles suspended in it, and there is no burnt smell, then you might still be OK to change.
I like to do the fluid every 30K miles or sooner.
I am not a trany re-builder and never worked at a trany shop, just speaking from experience. Maybe someone with more of a transmission background will have a better idea about if 65K without a fluid and filter change is now too late to change.
The recommended interval for +4 is 60k for severe service and 150k for normal. +4 turns brown very quickly, and is normal, per Chrysler's info. So yes, it is safe to change the fluid.