I also believe it takes a full calendar year to decide where you want to be in your new life. For instance I previously went fishing and hunting on the weekends because I had weekends off on Friday at 1:00. Now I go during the week and pick the best day as far as weather and wind etc are concerned. I can ride my Honda Monkey in very low traffic and enjoy the roads in the Corvette much more. I have time to help my kids almost whenever they call for a hand. I go to more funeral visitations and can go to the gun range any time I want to. I take my 93 old mom to the doctor or grocery store or little errands. When it snows I can get right out there and take my time to remove it. The lawn has never looked better and I can smoke meats anytime I want to. In other words the list goes on and on. If you are working 40 hours per week these items need to be completed after you drove to work and back, made dinner/supper, and worked 8 hours per day. Why suffer unless you have to. 