Yup - Jim hit it on the head.
Filteration is most assuredly important, but only down to some finite level (as determined by each EOM) and then the law of diminishing returns takes over. As you clean the system ever "better", the return on your cleanliness falls ever fainter in wear results. At some point, it's just moot. As a generalization, engines and lubes from the last decade or so have been good enough to get extremely long service with just normal fluids and filters in their maintenance plan.
But, bypass filtration is fantastic at OCI extension, and is a tool that can pay back in spades, if one can keep their hands off the wrenches long enough! To get there, you have to balance the OCI cost, the UOA cost, the top-off costs, the maintenace costs (intermediate FCIs) and even amoritize in the system cost. Larger sump systems pay for themselves fairly quickly; small sump systems may never reach that ROI because the used oil analysis and such kill the return before it breaks even.
It's a fun hobby for many, and there is nothing wrong with that! But it's unfair and unsound to presume or claim that using a bypass will automatically increase equipment longevity.
Bypass systems, like synthetic fluids, are items to extend the OCI; they are a fiscal savings tool. If you cannot (or will not) achieve that, they are not worth the time/money investment.