This is already a feature on the big Allisons.
Soon to be found on car/light truck automatics:
The Allison Highway Series was designed for high density, stop-and-go duty cycles. A feature called Reduced Engine Load at Stop (RELS), available on the Allison 3000 HS, ensures that the transmission won’t waste energy when the vehicle is at a full stop. With RELS, the transmission reduces the load on the engine, achieving benefits similar to shifting into Neutral. This not only saves fuel, it reduces overall vehicular emissions.
With full electronics the powertrain can sense an idle stopped condition and release a clutch inside the trans(knowing that the wheel brake is applied - via the vehicle CAN network - to keep from rolling). And yes design changes need to be made to accomodate the extra clutch engagement cycles.