It's all a matter of preference..though sometimes, with living in Colorado's high-country, I do feel the manual gives you more control of easier down-shifts, etc without feeling like you're over-burdening the auto tranny.
However...for one that likes an auto, I doubt it has anything to do with the fact that they don't know how to drive....has anyone ever thought that perhaps those with automatics may have REASON for their choice; i.e bad hips, knees, lower back pain, kids in the car, etc.?
I for one LOVE driving a 5-spd car, I HATE driving a 5-spd truck - reason?? I'm short for one, for another I have a bad schiatic nerve on my left leg that literally sends me into tears just with a casual drive if I have to overstretch that leg for any reason....with the automatic, I don't have to use that leg period!
I hate those opinions of 5-spd drivers believing auto drivers don't know how to drive just based off them owning an automatic.
The shear act of *driving* alone, this day and age is a challenge irregardless what transmission you're using; and IMHO, so many people are throttle happy at the drop of a green light, the last thing one needs to do is let off the clutch too soon.
I learned how to drive on 5-spd, and my nephew will learn how to drive a 5-spd as well, but for his first learning, it will be in an automatic....the kid's going to have enough on his hands with traffic speeding along at a gazzilion miles an hour....everyone's ALWAYS in a hurry, driving alone is a challenge.