Anyone know how to unlock this connector?

[mhz1000a]

Anyone know how to unlock this connector?
2006 Honda pilot PCM connector

Thank you for your help!

 

[The Critic]

Look carefully - there's a tab on there.

 

[mhz1000a]

Look carefully - there's a tab on there.

thanks i try look more carefully

 

[DuckRyder]

Look carefully - there's a tab on there.

Then the grey part hinges outward right?