At 54 years old the entire family thinks that jail or death is just over the horizon. We (5 siblings) have tried everything we know for at least the last 15-20 years. An intervention like the tv show would have him walking out and cursing all of us, including our 92-year old mother, who shouldn't have to be dealing with this.
This hurt me and I guess it should. My last rehab (before incarceration) they had a "family night" and my 70yr old mother came. She had written down and read all the times she enabled me. She hired lawyers, "loaned" me money, took partial custody of my son, ect.....The worst was when the police thought I was still living at her house and had a "no knock" search warrant. They barged in the home at 6am with guns drawn. One officer nearly shot her beloved German Shepard. After she read that letter, I felt like a total piece of crap.....