Our Chrysler/Jeeps:
1998 Grand Cherokee 4.0, bought new, 183,000 miles, no engine issues ever.
2007 Grand Cherokee 5.7, bought 2 years old, 134,000 miles, same
2019 Compass 2.4, bought 3 years old, now at 114,000 miles only repair was stop/start battery. Nothing else but oil changes and 2 sets of tires!
Vis a Vis the 3.6 there's good and bad;
good: that oil filter housing and o rings were improved a few years back so it's not the problem it once was
bad: after the PUG upgrade, there were more problems with the intake cams wearing (they added VVL to VVT) so much so they released a TSB on that last summer for all PUGs up to 2025 model year
loose oil galley plugs, as noted above cause low oil pressure/flow to the cams and cam phasers
PUG also raised compression ratio and there are a fair # of blown head gasket complaints
That's what I have heard, the one in our '17 Wrangler is a pre-PUG version.
That said the one I trust the most is the 1998 4.0 six, nothing like a straight six, spark plug change, easy job, water pump/radiator, easy job, starter, roll under and you're done in a half hr. These jobs on the 2007 WK 5.7 either take a long time (spark plugs) or are a real horror show (starter, you remove the front driveshaft, radiator, is a royal pain in the butt, you have to disconnect the hydraulic cooling fan, etc.
I'll take a 96-98 ZJ or 96-98 XJ ANYDAY over what they make today, if I can find another nice rust free one!
A 4.0 six Jeep with a Selectrac transfer case is just what I like. Simple, repairable, not exciting, no cool gadgets, just a basic 4x4 that even Toyota can't make anymore.