JAKER22: You have to be careful assuming that the LACK of noise means all is OK. The valve clearances can tighten as well as loosen over time, and tight clearances can actually be worse than loose ones! The reason is that a valve is cooled when it rests on its seat, and a valve with small clearance (tight) spends a little less time on its seat than a valve with a big clearance (loose). Over time, exhaust valves can warp / burn in this case. I had an old '65 VW Beetle (air-cooled) and valve burning was a real risk, so everybody tended to adjust them a little loose for a little more thermal margin - and amazingly it worked!
CHRIS: You did the right thing, so don't let these guys get to you. I am probably also "guilty" of highly-maintaining my cars, but over 34 years of driving I have had far fewer issues and almost no breakdowns with my cars compared to most people. I have not kept records, but I think that I have saved a lot of hassles and thousands of dollars through regular maintenance, catching issues early, doing some of the work myself, and in good sale value of my old cars, most of which were ~12 years old and had ~100K miles at the time of sale.
My kids are in their late teens now, but I really know what you mean about having a new baby in the house (Congrats!) making your "free time" more valuable. Sure, you need to take it to the shop to have smaller jobs done - that makes perfect sense! Also, I'm sure you want to make sure that the car is in top shape as you or your wife travel around with the baby! I know I did!
CHRIS: You did the right thing, so don't let these guys get to you. I am probably also "guilty" of highly-maintaining my cars, but over 34 years of driving I have had far fewer issues and almost no breakdowns with my cars compared to most people. I have not kept records, but I think that I have saved a lot of hassles and thousands of dollars through regular maintenance, catching issues early, doing some of the work myself, and in good sale value of my old cars, most of which were ~12 years old and had ~100K miles at the time of sale.
My kids are in their late teens now, but I really know what you mean about having a new baby in the house (Congrats!) making your "free time" more valuable. Sure, you need to take it to the shop to have smaller jobs done - that makes perfect sense! Also, I'm sure you want to make sure that the car is in top shape as you or your wife travel around with the baby! I know I did!