The wear metals are low. Yes, the oil is diluted with fuel, but it doesn't seem to be wearing out the engine. That said, I'd be doing 6 month oil changes if you are not already. Moving to 5w-30 is also an option, but with a short tripped car, the thicker oil won't flow as great when truly cold, so I'm not sure. I say this as someone with a similar short trip city driving schedule. 0W-20 will flow easier when cold, but DI engines dilutes, so where is the balance with moving to a thicker oil?